Islamic Religious Education — Akhlaq (Moral Teachings)
Subtopic: Prohibitions in Islam | Target age: 13 (Kenya)
Specific Learning Outcomes
  • Explain causes of deviant sexual behaviour to safeguard oneself.
  • Describe effects of deviant sexual behaviour on society.
  • Explain the Islamic rationale for the prohibition of deviant sexual behaviour.
  • Appreciate that these prohibitions protect people and society.
  • Demonstrate understanding of prohibitions in Islam through activities and reflection.
What this lesson is about

In Islam, certain sexual behaviours are prohibited because they harm people, families and communities. This note explains why these acts are forbidden, what causes them, their effects on Kenyan society, and how young people can protect themselves and others.

Causes of deviant sexual behaviour (simple explanations)
  • Peer pressure: Trying to fit in makes some youths follow friends into risky sexual acts.
  • Lack of correct information: When young people do not get proper sex education, myths and wrong ideas spread.
  • Media and internet: Access to pornographic content can distort ideas about relationships and consent.
  • Poverty and survival needs: In some cases, economic hardship pushes people into risky behaviour (e.g., transactional sex).
  • Family breakdown or weak supervision: Little guidance at home can leave children vulnerable.
  • Substance use: Drugs or alcohol can lower judgment and lead to harmful choices.
  • Low awareness of rights and laws: Not knowing that abuse is wrong or that help is available makes victims silent.
Effects on the individual, family and society
  • Health risks: Sexually transmitted infections (including HIV), unwanted teenage pregnancy, and other medical problems.
  • Emotional harm: Shame, guilt, anxiety, depression and trauma for victims and families.
  • Education and future: Pregnant learners may drop out of school, limiting future opportunities.
  • Family breakdown: Trust is damaged; marriages and relationships may suffer.
  • Social problems: Increased stigma, crime, and weakened community cohesion.
  • Economic costs: Health care, support services and lost productivity affect the whole community.
Why Islam prohibits deviant sexual behaviour — simple reasons

Islamic teachings ask people to live in ways that protect dignity, families and the wider community. The main reasons include:

  • Protection of lineage and family: Clear rules about marriage and sexual relations protect children and family life.
  • Preserving dignity and honour: Modesty and respect keep people safe from exploitation and shame.
  • Prevention of harm (darar): Prohibitions aim to prevent physical, emotional and social harm.
  • Moral and spiritual guidance: Following Islamic rules helps believers grow in self-control and good character (akhlaq).
  • Social order and trust: Clear boundaries help communities live together with trust and respect.

(These reasons are based on general teachings from the Qur’an and the Sunnah that encourage modesty, lawful relationships and protection of the weak.)

Appreciating the prohibition — positive benefits
  • Stronger families and safer childhoods.
  • Less disease and fewer unplanned pregnancies among youths.
  • Clear rules help young people make good choices and avoid harm.
  • Communities that care for each other and respect rights are more peaceful.
How to safeguard yourself — practical steps for learners
  • Know and set boundaries: Decide what you are comfortable with and say no firmly when something feels wrong.
  • Avoid risky situations: Stay with friends, avoid being alone with someone you don’t trust, especially in private places.
  • Digital safety: Do not share intimate images or follow accounts that promote pornographic content; report abusive messages.
  • Seek help early: Talk to a trusted adult — parent, teacher, school counsellor, imam or a child protection officer — if you feel threatened.
  • Learn your rights: Kenyan law protects children and young people from sexual abuse; you can report offences to the school or police.
  • Practice your faith: Regular prayer, reading, and being part of a youth group can strengthen self-control and provide support.
Demonstrate understanding — classroom activities
  1. Role-play: Students act out scenarios (refusing pressure, reporting harassment) and practice safe responses.
  2. Poster making: Create a school poster on "Protecting Dignity & Respect" with simple messages in English, Kiswahili or local languages.
  3. Group discussion: Small groups list causes and solutions; groups present to the class with a short poem or skit.
  4. Case studies: Read short, age-appropriate stories set in Kenya and answer questions about what the characters should do.
  5. Guest talk: Invite a school counsellor, imam or child protection officer to discuss help available and how to report concerns.
Quick check (short quiz)
  1. Why does Islam prohibit sexual relations outside marriage? (Answer: To protect dignity, family, health and social order.)
  2. Name two causes of deviant sexual behaviour. (Answer: peer pressure, lack of information, poverty, media influence, etc.)
  3. Give two ways a learner can safeguard themselves. (Answer: set boundaries; avoid risky situations; seek help; digital safety.)
  4. List one effect of deviant sexual behaviour on society. (Answer: increased STIs, school dropouts, family problems.)
  5. Who can you report to at school if someone touches you in a wrong way? (Answer: teacher, school counsellor, headteacher, or local authorities.)
Glossary (simple)
  • Zina: Unlawful sexual relations (outside marriage).
  • Modesty: Showing respect for yourself and others in dress and behaviour.
  • Consent: Agreement by all people involved; without consent any sexual act is wrong and harmful.
  • Child protection: Rules and actions that keep children safe from harm and abuse.
Teacher tips: Use local examples that students can relate to (village, town, or Nairobi settings). Keep language non-judgemental, focus on safety, rights and Islamic principles of respect. Encourage students to ask questions privately if they feel uneasy.
End of notes — encourage compassion, safety and responsible choices.

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