LISTENING & SPEAKING: SOUND AND WORD STRESS (Topic: FAMILY)

Age: 12 (Kenyan learners) — Short notes to help you hear and say family words correctly. Word stress means which part (syllable) of a word is said stronger or louder. This helps other people understand you.

Quick rules to remember

  • Two‑syllable nouns: usually stress the first syllable (e.g., MOTH‑er, FATH‑er).
  • Compound family nouns: stress the first part (e.g., GRAND‑mother, SON‑in‑law).
  • Long words: find the main (primary) stress; other syllables are weaker and shorter.
  • Connected speech: small words (my, the, a) are often unstressed — focus on the important family word.

Family words — stress shown two ways

We show stress using: CAPS for the stressed syllable: MOTH‑er and also with a simple phonetic mark (ˈ) before the stressed syllable: /ˈmʌðər/.

Immediate family
  • MOTH‑er — /ˈmʌðər/ (mother) 👩
  • FATH‑er — /ˈfɑːðər/ (father) 👨
  • SIS‑ter — /ˈsɪstər/ (sister) 👧
  • BROTH‑er — /ˈbrʌðər/ (brother) 👦
  • SON — /sʌn/ (son) 👦
  • DAUGH‑ter — /ˈdɔːtər/ (daughter) 👧
Extended family
  • GRAND‑MA / GRAND‑MOTHER — /ˈgrændˌmʌðər/ 👵
  • GRAND‑PA / GRAND‑FATHER — /ˈgrændˌfɑːðər/ 👴
  • COU‑sin — /ˈkʌzən/ (cousin) 👫
  • AUNT — /ɑːnt/ or /ænt/ (aunt) 👩‍🦳
  • UN‑cle — /ˈʌŋkəl/ (uncle) 👨‍🦳
Other useful words
  • PAR‑ents — /ˈpɛərənts/ (parents) 👪
  • SIB‑lings — /ˈsɪblɪŋz/ (siblings) 👨‍👩‍👧
  • HUS‑band — /ˈhʌzbənd/ (husband) 🤵
  • WIFE — /waɪf/ (wife) 👰
  • NEP‑hew — /ˈnɛfjuː/ (nephew) 👶
  • NIECE — /niːs/ (niece) 👧

How to practise listening

  1. Listen for the loud (stressed) syllable — that syllable lasts a little longer and sounds clearer.
  2. If two people say "my MOTH‑er" and "my moth‑ER", the first is natural for the noun; the second sounds wrong for this type of word.
  3. Try to hear the stress in short sentences: "This is my GRAND‑mother." → stress on GRAND‑.

Speaking tips (say it aloud)

  • Say the stressed syllable a bit louder and longer: MOTH-er (not moth-ER).
  • For compound family words, give the first part more stress: GRAND-mother, SON-in-law.
  • Use sentence stress to show importance: "My mother is HOME." (stress HOME) — this helps listeners understand what you mean.
  • Practice with a partner: one says a sentence, the other repeats and copies the stress.

Short practice activities

1. Circle the stressed part (say it aloud):

a) grandmother → GRAND‑mother

b) nephew → NEP‑hew

c) sister → SIS‑ter

2. Say each sentence, stressing the capital word (repeat 3 times):

  1. My MOTH-er cooks pilau.
  2. We visited my GRAND-pa.
  3. That is my SON-in-law.

3. Listening check (ask a friend): Your friend says a family word. Can you pick which syllable was stressed? Try 5 words and check.

Common mistakes and how to fix them

  • Wrong: saying moth-ER (stress on second syllable). Fix: say MOTH-er and practise repeating the first syllable louder.
  • Wrong: giving equal stress to all syllables (sounds flat). Fix: make the stressed syllable longer and slightly louder.
  • Wrong: stressing small words (my, the) too much. Fix: keep small words short; make the family word stronger.

Quick reminder: Practice often with a friend or family member. Listening and repeating helps your pronunciation and makes you easier to understand.


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