Grade 7 CRE CHRISTIAN LIVING TODAY – HUMAN SEXUALITY Notes

- It is the way God made boys and girls, including their bodies, feelings and the way they form relationships.
- It is not just about bodies — it is also about love, respect, and choices.

• God made people in His image (Genesis 1:27) — every person is special and loved.
• Our bodies are important and should be cared for (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).
• Christian teaching encourages purity and waiting for marriage before sexual intimacy. Marriage is a special promise between husband and wife (Matthew 19:4-6).

As you grow (about ages 10–14) your body and feelings change. This is normal.

• Girls: breasts grow, periods start, body shape changes.
• Boys: voice may deepen, shoulders broaden, hair grows on face and body.
• Both: growth spurts, more sweating, new feelings and mood changes.

Simple tip: talk to your parent, teacher, or older sibling if you are unsure about changes.

• Be kind, honest and respectful to friends of any gender.
• Healthy friendships do not pressure you into things you are not ready for.
• In Christianity, deep romantic relationships are taken seriously and are best within the safety of marriage.

- Your body belongs to you. You can say "no" to any touch that makes you uncomfortable.
- Consent means asking and getting a clear "yes" before any physical touching. If someone ignores your "no", that is not right.

• Do not keep secrets about being hurt or touched in ways that upset you.
• Tell a trusted adult (parent, teacher, church leader) if someone makes you feel unsafe.
• Avoid risky situations — meet friends in public places at school or church, and stay with trusted people.

• Wash regularly, change clothes when sweaty, and keep private parts clean.
• Girls: learn how to use sanitary pads or other menstrual care products and dispose of them properly.
• If you notice pain, heavy bleeding, bad smell, or other worries, tell a parent or health worker.

- It is okay to say "No" or "I am not ready." Practice polite ways to refuse: "No, thank you," or "Let's just be friends."
- True friends will respect your choice.

• Talk to a parent, guardian, teacher, school counsellor, or church leader you trust.
• If you are in danger, contact local authorities or child protection services in your area.
• Schools and churches in Kenya often have programmes and counsellors to help with these issues.

A short prayer you can say: "Lord, help me to respect my body and other people. Give me wisdom to make good choices. Amen."

Memory verses (simple):

• Genesis 1:27 — "God made us in his image."
• 1 Corinthians 6:19 — "Your body is a temple; honour God with your body."

1. Write three ways to show respect to a friend.
2. Talk with a parent or teacher about one change you are noticing in your body.