CRE: The Teachings of Jesus Christ — Revenge

Class: Age 9 (Kenya) • Subtopic: Revenge

What is "revenge"?

Revenge means trying to hurt someone because they hurt you. It can be with words, actions or not being kind. 😠➡️😢

What Jesus taught about revenge

  • “Turn the other cheek.” (Matthew 5:39) — Do not fight back when someone hurts you.
  • “Love your enemies.” (Matthew 5:44) — Be kind even to those who are mean.
  • Forgive others. (Mark 11:25) — Let go of anger and say sorry or accept an apology.
  • Do good to people who hurt you. (Luke 6:27) — Surprise them with kindness.
Easy words: Jesus teaches us not to get back at people. Instead, we forgive and show love. ❤️

Why revenge is not good

  • It makes fights bigger and longer.
  • It hurts our heart and makes us sad.
  • It breaks friendships and family peace.
  • God wants us to be peacemakers, not fighters.

What to do instead of revenge

  1. Stay calm and count to ten. 😊
  2. Tell a teacher, parent or guardian about the problem.
  3. Say how you feel in a kind way: “I felt sad when you did that.”
  4. Forgive the person and pray for them. 🙏
  5. If someone keeps hurting you, ask an adult to help keep you safe.

School and home examples

School: If a classmate pushes you, you can tell a teacher and try to play elsewhere, then forgive when it is safe.

Home: If a sister breaks your toy, talk to her and ask her to say sorry or help fix it instead of hiding her things.

Short activity (10 minutes)
  • Role play: One child pretends to be angry and the other practices a calm reply. Swap roles.
  • Drawing: Draw a happy scene after forgiveness. Add the words: “I forgive.”

Memory verse

“Love your enemies and pray for those who hurt you.” — Matthew 5:44 (simple words for children)

Short prayer

Dear Jesus, help me to forgive and to be kind. Teach me to turn the other cheek and to love others. Amen. 🙏

Quick questions (talk about these)

  1. What is revenge?
  2. Name one thing Jesus told us to do instead of revenge.
  3. Who can you talk to if someone keeps hurting you?
  4. How can you show kindness to someone who was unkind?
Teacher/Parent note:

Use local stories or Bible storybooks to show examples (e.g., stories of Joseph, Jesus forgiving others). Reinforce safe reporting: children must tell an adult if they are in danger.

Remember: Forgiveness brings peace. Be a peacemaker! ✌️


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